Last week I was sitting in the lounge at Prague Airport
listening to a very loud American guy dictating to his much younger assistant,
who was rattling away on his laptop, looking completely terrified. It was so irritating that in the end I moved
and then got lost in my book. When I got
to the plane and went to my seat (it was one of the business class flights mentioned
in my last musing!) I was surprised to see the American sitting by the window
and the young guy in my aisle seat still being dictated to and still rattling
away. He immediately leapt to his feet
and apologized, saying that he was just sitting there until I arrived. And then he got up and moved to economy,
telling the boss he will see him the other side.
I pondered all of this whilst we made our short flight to
Zurich (and was also pleased that the American didn’t look at me, a mere woman,
and ask me to take some dictation along the way too… he looked the type). First, how odd it was to see someone
dictating nowadays, rather than simply typing for himself. Second how strange to see someone who was
obviously successful (and rich?) drinking three double vodkas on a relatively
early and short flight (another story), and third, whether, should I ever need
to have an assistant travel with me, I would book myself into business but
expect them to sit up the back – and I would like to think that I would not!!
Sitting on a plane, though, is a good place to watch human
behavior (even one’s own!). A few years
ago we were swept into an entourage leaving Malaga business club lounge to go
to the plane, and when we suddenly got surrounded by a load of cameras, realized
that they weren’t for us, but that we had somehow got included in a group that
included Julio Iglesias! Now that was
pretty exciting! And how charming and
easy going he was to everyone; we sat behind him on the plane and he couldn’t
have been more normal.
A few weeks later, again from Malaga to Paris, we watched a
famous opera singer sit herself down in the first row, with her assistant
sitting immediately behind her. No
sooner had the plane started taxiing than the singer required her assistant to
get up and find her scarf as she was cold (the stewardess allowed her to do
that in sympathy, I think), and so it continued throughout the whole
flight. On reflection, perhaps that
particular assistant would have liked to have sat up the back away from her
prima donna boss.
Over the years, especially since I started doing a bit of
‘talent management’, I have thought a lot about the effect that becoming rich
and famous/successful has on people; some of my sports people are or have been very
famous, and in the course of our PR business we have worked with many
celebrities/politicians/well known business people, and how they deal with
their fame/success seems to vary from person to person – but pretty much
without fail, it always has a weird effect.
One of my sports people complains about being hassled
wherever we go, but insists on always meeting in one of the most popular
‘places to be seen’ in the city, and sitting bang in the middle of the
room. Another, who we worked with a lot
before he became famous, was determined that he would ‘make it one day’ and
behaved ‘famous’ from day one – whenever he visited, he would arrive in our
office dressed in an ankle-length white fur coat and dark glasses, even though
no-one had a clue who he was. They do
now! And of course he doesn’t like it
anymore. Funny thing fame.
What is even stranger, is that some of the most ‘famous
people’ in the world are sports people that, really, haven’t done an awful lot
(sorry… I am, of course, sports mad and love loads of them, but it is true!)…
in the scheme of things, whacking a ball, saving a puck, skiing very fast or
whatever over what is a relatively short time span really isn’t that earth
shattering. I think a lot of them would
prefer that this wasn’t the case (apart from the money that comes with
it!). My very famous ice hockey friend
laments the fact that he finds it difficult to have a meaningful relationship
as he is never sure if the ladies are interested only in him/his body/his money
(surely not?!) or whether they actually like him as a person. I have told him
to move to the UK where no-one will know him, and then he will find out!
Which leads me, I think, to our dinner with the completely
wonderful Sir Bob Geldof. To us Brits
of a certain age, the person that most deserves to be famous, rich, adored. And
yet when I went into my office the morning after our dinner (yes, sorry, got to
mention that again) and told my Czech team, they all said ‘yer, who is he?’…